Book Review: Counting the Cost by Jill Duggar

Rating: ★★★★★
Audience: Non-fiction Memoir
Length: 288 pages
Author: Jill Duggar
Publisher: Gallery Books
Release Date: September 12th, 2023
Image & Other Reviews on: Goodreads

BOOK SUMMARY:

For the first time, discover the unedited truth about the Duggars, the traditional Christian family that captivated the nation on TLC’s hit show 19 Kids and Counting . Jill Duggar and her husband Derick are finally ready to share their story, revealing the secrets, manipulation, and intimidation behind the show that remained hidden from their fans.

Jill and Derick knew a normal life wasn’t possible for them. As a star on the popular TLC reality show 19 Kids and Counting , Jill grew up in front of viewers who were fascinated by her family’s way of life. She was the responsible, second daughter of Jim Bob and Michelle’s nineteen kids; always with a baby on her hip and happy to wear the modest ankle-length dresses with throat-high necklines. She didn’t protest the strict model of patriarchy that her family followed, which declares that men are superior, that women are expected to be wives and mothers and are discouraged from attaining a higher education, and that parental authority over their children continues well into adulthood, even once they are married.

But as Jill got older, married Derick, and they embarked on their own lives, the red flags became too obvious to ignore.

For as long as they could, Jill and Derick tried to be obedient family members—they weren’t willing to rock the boat. But now they’re raising a family of their own, and they’re done with the secrets. Thanks to time, tears, therapy, and blessings from God, they have the strength to share their journey. Theirs is a remarkable story of the power of the truth and is a moving example of how to find healing through honesty.

LOVED.

Jill has always been one of my favorites and I remember watching a lot of this show growing up. I loved the way she wrote about her experiences with her family and the show and how that played into so many aspects of her life.

I also loved how she talked about her changes in faith and how much healthier her relationships are and that Jill has found ways to work on the healing she deserves. I loved hearing about her relationship with Derick and that they seem like a strong foundation.

This was an enlightening read that broke my heart a bit and I appreciate the insights and comments to her growing up years and where she is now.

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